I dread writing about feminism but today I somehow got
something inside me that says I should scribble down some words. I am not going
to say much because so much has already been said by so many people. Let me
state things very clearly into steps because I don’t want to write much and
people are anyways going to call me a hypocrite.
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Men follow Feminism too. (for those who don’t
know)
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It doesn’t only value women but also respect men’s
opinion.
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You do not need to force feminism on someone to
make them respect you. It is possible that you have done hateful things. And
maybe everybody does not like to follow this mainstream word to show that they
know how to respect a woman. Maybe they just have the issues with mainstream
stuff. It is okay, they are human. DO NOT FORCE.
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Respect men, they have issues too. Respect women,
because you should and many of them are literally just bolder and stronger than
man. It is okay to accept that sometimes women are stronger than man. DON’T JUDGE!
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Men do cry and it is okay to cry. You are human.
We are not competing over who cries much. Men or Women. Both cries, we know okay. I won’t tell anyone
but I know.
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Feminism means not to look at someone with
stereotypical propagandas. A woman who doesn’t like to cook shall not cook and
it should be accepted and not judged. If a man likes to cook, he is not a
women, not gay, neither weak nor stupid. He is just human, I am repeating, He
is human. They can like anything.
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A right to wear anything, look like anything is
just a simple right. Don’t brag it into feminism. Men can wear anything. Women
can wear anything. We don’t care unless you want us to.
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If you wear inappropriate clothes in a shady
area in night, then I am sorry I won’t call you very intelligent. I know you
are allowed to wear anything but being practical is awesome sometimes. Try it.
I know every woman faces a lot of things in her daily life, I am a woman too
and I also don’t care what society says about our clothes. But don’t wear those
clothes; not because they don’t want you to, but just because you shouldn’t at
that place and at that time. You can’t change people by going against them,
believe me.
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Since when do we need to teach other how to
respect? I guess if feminist has brought necessary things to limelight, it has
also brought with itself the foolhardiness. Stereotyping has been in society
for a long time and if you want to change things, have some patience. Because that’s
not how you change things.
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I bet people are going to disrespect and hate
each other even after accepting feminism. Because they are humans and it is
their nature to not like someone sometimes. It is okay humans.
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Before bragging about feminism, try to accept humanism. Try humanism. It is nice you know. Be a fucking human, a nice human. And
you will then, won’t need, any other theory.
*There are loads of
things I have not written, because I think you are aware of them. You know why
we need feminism; you know what is happening with women in society and how men
judge sensitive men. I know you know, I wrote what you have forgotten or
misunderstood. Feminism is not only for women, it is just respecting or valuing
each other’s opinion. We both suffer,
there is no competition, men and women are not two separate political parties.
We are just humans.*
